Invitation Wording

Deciding on the wording for your invitation can seem like a daunting task, but this guide takes some of the stress out of the process.

The information that is included in most wedding invitations is broken down into five sections: the host, the request, the couple, date and time, and location. Including reception information on the main invite is optional- you may choose instead to use a separate card for the reception (wording samples for both options is included).

Remember to use this guide as a starting point; there are a multitude of other wording options out there!

www.verseit.com is a great place to find a wide variety of both traditional and contemporary wording options.

And if you want to make sure your invitation follows “traditional etiquette” take a look at Emily Post’s Wedding Etiquette or Crane & Co.'s etiquette faq.

But when all is said and done, it’s your wedding, so make sure you’re comfortable with whatever wording you end up choosing.

 

host

Mr. and Mrs. Kevin Johnson
{bride’s parents hosting}

Mr. and Mrs. Kevin Johnson
and
Mr. and Mrs. Andrew Clayton
{bride and groom’s parents hosting}

Jamie Lynn Johnson
and
Jack Warren Clayton
{bride and groom hosting}

Together with their families
Jamie Lynn Johnson
and
Jack Warren Clayton
{everyone hosting}

 

request

request the honor of your presence
{ceremony at a place of worship}

request the pleasure of your company
{ceremony at a secular location}

 

the couple

Jamie Lynn
and
Mr. Jack Warren Clayton
{formal}

Jamie Lynn Johnson
and
Jack Warren Clayton
{formal}

Jamie Johnson
and
Jack Clayton
{informal}

 

date time

Saturday, the eighteenth of June
two thousand eleven
at six o’clock in the evening
{formal}

Saturday, June 18, 2011
at 5 pm
{informal}

 

location

St. Michael’s Church
Carmel, Indiana
{well known location}

The Michael’s Residence
1896 Main Street
Carmel, Indiana
{lesser known location or home}

 

reception

and afterward at the reception
{same location as ceremony}

and afterward at the reception
Briar Country Club
1845 Clayton Avenue
Carmel, Indiana
{different location than ceremony}